Training 200 Buyers: How to Democratize Negotiation in Business
Negotiation is often seen as a skill reserved for procurement experts.
Negotiation is often seen as a skill reserved for procurement experts. Yet at Swile, a groundbreaking approach has trained 200 employees to become autonomous negotiators. How? By turning learning into a fun, accessible experience inspired by the techniques of elite FBI and RAID negotiators.
Negotiation: A Skill Everyone Can Learn
In many organizations, negotiation remains centralized within the procurement department. This approach creates bottlenecks and limits team autonomy. Swile chose to break this model by democratizing this essential skill.
As Éric explains: “To stop being afraid of negotiating, you need actionable levers. So we asked ourselves—how can we explain negotiation in a way that’s simple, with actionable levers, and show them that it can be fun?”
This vision radically transforms the perception of negotiation, making it accessible—and even enjoyable—for all employees.
A Method Inspired by Elite Negotiators
The Experts Behind the Training
The program is built on the expertise of renowned professional negotiators:
Laurent Combalbert, former RAID negotiator
Chris Voss, former FBI negotiator
These references bring credibility and proven effectiveness in the most critical situations. Their methods, adapted to a corporate context, provide concrete tools that can be applied immediately.
Learning Through Play: An Innovative Approach
To capture attention and maintain engagement, the training uses unconventional role plays:
Prison escape scenarios
End-of-the-world situations
Unexpected role-playing exercises
This playful approach allows participants to:
Demystify negotiation
Create a relaxed learning environment
Improve retention through lived experience
The 4 Key Steps of a Successful Negotiation
The method taught structures negotiation into four distinct yet complementary phases:
1. Empathy: Understand Before Acting
The first step is to build a connection with the other party:
Understand their context
Identify their constraints and motivations
Adapt your communication accordingly
2. Courage: Dare to Ask and Stay Silent
This stage is crucial—and often the hardest for beginners. It involves:
Clearly stating your request
Remaining silent after your proposal
Letting the other party react without filling the silence
Kevin highlights its importance: “Most negotiations end there because if you’ve done your context phase well and adapted your request to what you understood from the other party, you’ll make just the right ask.”
3. The Negotiation Itself
If needed, this phase is where positions are adjusted. However, with proper preparation, 80% of negotiations conclude before reaching this step.
4. Closing: Finalizing the Deal
The last step is to:
Formalize agreements
Ensure mutual understanding
Define next steps
Changing Perspective: Negotiate as if You Have Nothing to Buy
One core principle taught is to reverse the traditional buyer-seller dynamic. Éric puts it clearly: “You have to negotiate as if you had nothing to buy. And when you speak with our salespeople, explain that in fact they have something to sell.”
This psychological approach:
Rebalances the power dynamic
Strengthens the negotiator’s position
Creates a more favorable environment for concessions
Tangible Results: Autonomy in Action
Transformed Employees
The impact of the training is clear in field feedback. Kevin shares enthusiastically: “It’s always great when employees come to us saying: I applied these techniques, I made my request, and then I stayed silent.”
These testimonials show:
Ownership of the techniques taught
Increased confidence among participants
Practical application in daily work
Autonomy That Benefits Everyone
The ultimate goal is to build an organization where every employee can negotiate without systematically relying on procurement. This autonomy generates:
Greater reactivity in processes
Better cost control across all levels
Development of cross-functional skills
The Keys to Implementing This Approach
1. Make Training Accessible and Engaging
Use interactive, playful formats
Leverage concrete examples and role plays
Adapt content to the company’s context
2. Draw Inspiration from Best Practices
Study professional negotiators’ methods
Adapt techniques to the business environment
Create a structured yet flexible framework
3. Measure and Celebrate Success
Track savings achieved
Share success stories
Build a positive negotiation culture
Conclusion: Toward a Shared Negotiation Culture
Swile’s experience shows that it’s possible to radically transform the corporate approach to negotiation. By making this skill accessible to all, using playful methods, and learning from the best, the company fosters a true culture of negotiation.
For finance and procurement professionals, this approach offers a unique opportunity: multiplying their impact by becoming facilitators rather than bottlenecks. By training and empowering teams, they can focus on strategic negotiations while knowing the entire organization contributes to cost optimization.
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